In this powerful episode of The AMP'D UP211 Podcast, host and creator Rick Bontkowski, a right below-the-knee amputee, sits down with Marcy Rubic, a leader in the nonprofit world and a passionate advocate for limb preservation. With over 25 years of experience, Marcy shares the incredible work being done at the Limb Preservation Foundation, where lives are being changed and limbs are being saved. From innovative prevention programs to the personal stories of those facing limb loss, Marcy offers a behind-the-scenes look at how her team is providing hope and healing to the limb loss community.
Join us as we explore the inspiring impact of her work and discuss the vital role organizations like the Limb Preservation Foundation play in giving individuals the chance to reclaim their mobility and dignity.
[00:00:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Welcome to the AMPD UP211 Podcast.
[00:00:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Today, we have the honor of speaking with a true champion in the world of health-related nonprofits.
[00:00:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Marcy Rubic, with over 25 years of experience,
[00:00:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Marcy has dedicated her career to making a profound impact on those facing limb loss and limb threatening conditions.
[00:00:19] [SPEAKER_00]: As the executive director of the Limb Preservation Foundation,
[00:00:23] [SPEAKER_00]: she leads a charge in providing crucial support,
[00:00:26] [SPEAKER_00]: funding groundbreaking research, and advocating for the limb loss and limb difference community.
[00:00:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Marcy's journey is one of passion, resilience, and unwavering dedication.
[00:00:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Marcy, how are you today? Good to see you.
[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Rick, thank you so much. It's great to see you, and thank you so much for the opportunity to be here.
[00:00:56] [SPEAKER_00]: That's so sweet of you. I have really enjoyed our conversations online, on phone,
[00:01:03] [SPEAKER_00]: and otherwise. Getting to know you, this incredible foundation that you are a part of,
[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_00]: and also exploring maybe the prospect of us coming to your symposium,
[00:01:17] [SPEAKER_00]: and maybe doing something in terms of content there with the show. I'm fascinated with
[00:01:25] [SPEAKER_00]: nonprofits. I follow many of them. When it comes to people that advocate in this particular
[00:01:33] [SPEAKER_00]: space, I go even deeper in my curiosity and fascination with people that dedicate their lives
[00:01:42] [SPEAKER_00]: to non-profit, to helping others, to giving us people in limb loss situations, limb differences,
[00:01:53] [SPEAKER_00]: the threat of limb loss. All of those folks that need help and need support systems that aren't
[00:02:03] [SPEAKER_00]: gratuitous. They're practical. Hey, let's help you pay a bill, or let's help you get the right kind of
[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_00]: prosthetic care, or let's find you the right type of specialist so that you can preserve
[00:02:17] [SPEAKER_00]: the limb that you have depending on condition. Yes, I do want to talk about the limb loss
[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_00]: situation and everything that the foundation does. I also want to talk about you,
[00:02:33] [SPEAKER_00]: because I think for our listeners, there's always that fascination with people like yourself.
[00:02:40] [SPEAKER_00]: You are not someone who has suffered a limb loss, but you've been in these charitable
[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_00]: spaces for a very, very long time. How would you describe your particular ambitions about getting
[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_00]: into this health-related non-profit space? How would you describe what made you gravitate
[00:03:07] [SPEAKER_01]: towards what you do now? Yeah, honestly, I just always really had a passion for healthcare,
[00:03:16] [SPEAKER_01]: and it was really healthcare above everything else, but I definitely don't have the kind of skills
[00:03:23] [SPEAKER_01]: to provide direct care. I was always a good communicator and good with words.
[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I just realized early in my career when I was working in public relations
[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_01]: that I really wanted to talk about healthcare. I really wanted to
[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_01]: talk about really advances all the time and connect with that, and the opportunities that came
[00:03:53] [SPEAKER_01]: my way were honestly raising funds for healthcare causes. For the past
[00:04:02] [SPEAKER_01]: decades, a couple of decades, I have worked for a variety of different hospitals and different
[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_01]: national healthcare non-profits. Honestly, it's a privilege to work with the patients,
[00:04:21] [SPEAKER_01]: and there's always stories of resilience, something major in their life that honestly shaped them into
[00:04:32] [SPEAKER_01]: someone that they weren't expecting to be. Honestly, you don't want anyone to suffer, but
[00:04:40] [SPEAKER_01]: it often brings out some heroic qualities in people, and it's really an honor to work with
[00:04:49] [SPEAKER_01]: them and to advocate and try to improve lives. That's really where I came from, and I've been
[00:04:59] [SPEAKER_01]: really privileged to work for the LIMP Reservation Foundation for the past five years.
[00:05:06] [SPEAKER_01]: It's just a wonderful journey, and we really get to see and get to work with patients who
[00:05:14] [SPEAKER_01]: are extremely grateful for the care that they've received and also grateful to receive assistance
[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_00]: to know that someone cares for them. You've been very generous in providing the show with
[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_00]: some of your patients' stories, and of course I sort of gobble that up because for me,
[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_00]: the podcast, what we're trying to do is to highlight some of those journeys, some of those struggles,
[00:05:48] [SPEAKER_00]: which are really beautiful. I do agree that sometimes out of tragedy can come just this
[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_00]: incredible bright light of resilience, and I try to champion that. Is there a particular
[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_00]: patient experience you had that really had a really large impression on you
[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_00]: from where you were sitting? Would you be comfortable sharing that with us?
[00:06:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, honestly, I think that we are very fortunate and that a really large percentage of
[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_01]: our board are survivors of LIMP conditions. Some of them have gotten to keep their limbs,
[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_01]: and some of them know. But our common bond, I would say with our board of directors, is
[00:06:47] [SPEAKER_01]: they really, truly deeply care about this community because they've personally experienced it.
[00:06:56] [SPEAKER_01]: So just had lunch this week with our board chair. He's just one of those stories, and his journey
[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_01]: started decades earlier when he was an osteosarcoma patient. Really, he's been through numerous
[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_01]: knee replacement surgeries, revisions, chemotherapy, pain, intense pain. And to
[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_01]: really go through these experiences as a very young man, and he's a solid patient survivor.
[00:07:35] [SPEAKER_01]: He's someone who actually got to keep his limb, but he gives back, and it's extremely important
[00:07:44] [SPEAKER_01]: to him, just like there are other grateful patients just like him that are on our board of directors.
[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_01]: That it's a very important cause for him and for the other patients, survivors, I will call them,
[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_01]: that are on our board. And it's not really, as you know, a huge community. So to have,
[00:08:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I would say the privilege of working with people who feel so powerfully about honestly helping
[00:08:18] [SPEAKER_01]: pay bills for people that are currently experiencing these conditions, and they've been there. They've
[00:08:24] [SPEAKER_01]: walked in those shoes, and they understand how difficult it is. So to work with that energy,
[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just saying honestly, it's a privilege and it keeps me going. It just keeps me
[00:08:41] [SPEAKER_01]: grounded in the work that we do. So the story I told, he's just one of many. But we have
[00:08:48] [SPEAKER_01]: many other survivors like him and their strong feeling of giving back and channeling their
[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_01]: energy through us. It just makes for a beautiful experience in terms of the work that we do every
[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_00]: day. Yeah, and I would think developing those connections with people on your board or
[00:09:12] [SPEAKER_00]: patients that you come in contact with, stepping outside of the emotional box,
[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I would think from just a clinical standpoint, you must learn a tremendous amount just through
[00:09:24] [SPEAKER_00]: osmosis because I find that when the more people I talk to in this community,
[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_00]: the more I learn about limb loss and I'm an amputee myself. And you know, I realize on a daily
[00:09:40] [SPEAKER_00]: basis that I am not an expert that so often I think, wow, never thought of that. Whether it's
[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_00]: how someone manages a limb difference or limb loss, or what kind of treatment plans are in place and
[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_00]: how that's constantly evolving. Or something in the engineering of prosthesis and advancements
[00:10:06] [SPEAKER_00]: and prosthetics and all the various things that keep flowing in and out of our communities and
[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, do you feel like that is sort of like a benefit to what you do?
[00:10:26] [SPEAKER_01]: So much so and I love that. It's just like we were founded by an orthopedic surgeon,
[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_01]: a very renowned orthopedic surgeon named Dr. Ross Wilkins and he studied at Mayo Clinic and
[00:10:42] [SPEAKER_01]: honestly he was a brilliant, brilliant person. And many other people that we work with, our board
[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_01]: members and others are coming with a vast amount of knowledge of innovation, medical innovation,
[00:11:02] [SPEAKER_01]: prosthetics, engineering. And so we really learn about the cutting edge of what is coming and
[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_01]: the current techniques and how they're really just advancing so quickly. And that's really exciting
[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_01]: because you can see that life is going to be better for the community that we serve. So that's
[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_01]: a privilege and also fascinating to understand the kind of amazing surgical techniques,
[00:11:38] [SPEAKER_01]: surgical products. As I said, the engineering and how they're creating connections and
[00:11:47] [SPEAKER_01]: to the body that are going to make things so much better in the future and really
[00:11:53] [SPEAKER_01]: truly already are, that's exciting to be around. And I hope that it gives our community excitement
[00:12:01] [SPEAKER_01]: too to see how it's going to impact lives and improve them in the future.
[00:12:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. And is there something you would say specifically? Let's say if you were talking
[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_00]: to me for the first time and you're like, oh, Rick, okay, you're right leg below the knee
[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_00]: amputee, what would be something that would pop into your mind immediately in terms of, oh,
[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_00]: I need to share this advancement or this technology that might be relevant to his experience?
[00:12:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I'm sure that you know and many of your audience knows about ASU integration
[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_01]: and people are getting, people are very excited about it and I know that it's newer
[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_01]: in the United States but it's really been around in other countries. I think Australia is really
[00:12:59] [SPEAKER_01]: where the origins were. And to think about honestly advancements that are happening globally
[00:13:07] [SPEAKER_01]: to make the mind connect with the prosthetic in a more seamless way. I think just in the very
[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_01]: short time I've been with the limb preservation foundation in the past five years to see
[00:13:24] [SPEAKER_01]: the level of acceptance and the FDA approvals of this basic surgical technique
[00:13:33] [SPEAKER_01]: and I'm sure that we're just at the beginning of that. I just think it, everyone knows that in
[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_01]: the future we really will be looking at more Star Wars kinds of technology that'll be
[00:13:47] [SPEAKER_01]: just making it kind of like a no big deal operation. So I think that's super exciting but
[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_01]: other things that they're doing internally with a person's body to basically
[00:14:04] [SPEAKER_01]: using computer generated bones to insert in their body that are personalized for that person
[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_01]: is pretty amazing that they're printed for that person. I just think that's so fascinating and
[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_01]: it's so amazing to hear about it. It's so amazing to know the people that are the survivors that have
[00:14:32] [SPEAKER_01]: those pieces inside their body. I just think that's a very amazing thing and the people that care
[00:14:41] [SPEAKER_01]: for those patients they care very, very deeply. They want a better quality of life for their
[00:14:49] [SPEAKER_01]: patients. They want to restore a natural function and everything that keeps quality of life.
[00:14:59] [SPEAKER_01]: So I think it's exciting to work with them. I think it's exciting to be with the patients
[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_01]: and to serve many of those patients and some of their needs that they wouldn't
[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_00]: have met for them otherwise. Yeah and I find it fascinating too going back to the Star Wars
[00:15:20] [SPEAKER_00]: reference. I've you know huge science fiction fan myself and always have been in literature and
[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_00]: film and I would always think as a young person it's really neat where do these ideas come from
[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_00]: when you see these things in movies? Some of us just take it for granted but I was always
[00:15:48] [SPEAKER_00]: this really, really curious kid and I used to think gosh how do they come up with that?
[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Who thought of that and what's it based in? And then I started learning about what's referred to
[00:16:01] [SPEAKER_00]: as futurists. These are people, communities of people that typically filmmakers, authors, different
[00:16:10] [SPEAKER_00]: researchers speak to about what the potentialities are in the future and most of these people
[00:16:18] [SPEAKER_00]: have engineering backgrounds, they have medical degrees. It's basically someone that
[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_00]: forecasts what might be possible based on what we know now and where technology is at.
[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_00]: And so much of what you see in film is basically someone who really, really understands technology
[00:16:38] [SPEAKER_00]: and medicine saying this is something that could be a possibility and we have the ability to get
[00:16:47] [SPEAKER_00]: there. It's just a lot of our checks and balances in our medical communities and the scientific
[00:16:54] [SPEAKER_00]: communities have to catch up with it, right? Because something comes into the sphere
[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_00]: and then we have to go whoa whoa pump the brakes, we got to make sure this is safe,
[00:17:05] [SPEAKER_00]: there has to be trials for it, there has to be testing, all of this stuff. But you're right
[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_00]: there will come a point in time when losing a limb from whatever event, whether it's trauma,
[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_00]: whether it's from disease, replacing that limb will seem very ordinary. Well yeah,
[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I know a good lad guy, he hooked us up and now everything functions just as it used to,
[00:17:37] [SPEAKER_00]: mechanically of course, but yeah it's all back to normal again, right? So that acclimation period
[00:17:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I think for me anyway, it's exciting to know that that path won't take so long, that it'll be
[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_00]: something that foundations like the one you represent, the people that you represent,
[00:18:02] [SPEAKER_00]: all of those things will come to fruition eventually and I'm excited about that. And I
[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_00]: don't necessarily feel envious because so much has advanced already and I very often spend
[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_00]: entire days where I do not feel like an amputee at all and that's very comforting, but I know
[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_00]: that things are getting better with every year that passes, with every effort that someone like
[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_00]: yourself is making and the people you surround yourself with, things are getting better, things
[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_00]: keep advancing, we keep pushing the needle in the right direction. And that's very very exciting for
[00:18:42] [SPEAKER_00]: me as an amputee to know people in my situation in the future hopefully will have a much easier road
[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_00]: than let's say I did when my journey started six, seven years ago. Going back to the foundation work
[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_00]: and all those connection points that you make with people, I think there's such an emotional
[00:19:09] [SPEAKER_00]: aspect of what you do and I can't imagine that there aren't times based on the situations
[00:19:20] [SPEAKER_00]: that so many people in this community get sort of thrown into that it would be overwhelming.
[00:19:27] [SPEAKER_00]: And I mean overwhelming in the sense of, so you're in this charitable space, you're part of a
[00:19:34] [SPEAKER_00]: nonprofit, you're in a leadership role which carries a lot of weight. So I would think it
[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_00]: be completely normal at times to just feel so overwhelmed with that duty to help people and
[00:19:52] [SPEAKER_00]: define resources for those people. I mean can you describe that, what that feels like at times?
[00:20:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Well honestly it is very hard work and my hat is off to colleagues like me who are working for
[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_01]: really a small organization and it is always a question of resources and how do we do this and
[00:20:22] [SPEAKER_01]: how do we measure our success? How do we do better? How do we help more people? And that is
[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_01]: always the thing and it is always very hard to draw the line of how are we helping because
[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_01]: really the people that we help and the point in their life that they're at is they're really in
[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_01]: crisis mode. We are helping people who are, they're very under, the main program is our patient
[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_01]: assistance program. I believe that is the whole basis or the original basis for the foundation which
[00:21:02] [SPEAKER_01]: is honestly seeing people who had to receive the care, the medical care but understanding that
[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_01]: the situation is so much larger and in particular people who are under resourced who lack financially.
[00:21:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Those are the people that's really where we step in and where we're helping to pay their
[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_01]: mortgages and their utility bills and their transportation and paying hotels stays for their
[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_01]: families so that they can come and support them. And oftentimes these people are in a crisis mode.
[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_01]: They cannot work because of whatever their situation is be it trauma or tumor or
[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_01]: an infection that's gone rampant in their body. So really what we are here for is to provide relief
[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_01]: to them. We want to relieve some of their stress, relieve their financial stress
[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_01]: for several months to get them through the crisis and connect them with other people who have
[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_01]: been there so that they can see that there is a new chapter in front of them and kind of
[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_01]: help them through some of the very difficult emotional components in that time. So
[00:22:33] [SPEAKER_01]: yeah, that's really what we're doing and we are helping them through a crisis.
[00:22:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Helping people that otherwise there really isn't a singular source that pays these bills,
[00:22:49] [SPEAKER_01]: these living expenses and our intention is to relieve stress for them and give them
[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_01]: one less worry when they're already consumed with what's happening to my body.
[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_01]: What am I going to look like when this is all done? All those situations if you're dealing with loss
[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_01]: to just grapple and put your hands around what's this going to look like for me physically
[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_01]: and then you also have to worry about how am I going to keep a roof over my family's head.
[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Many times we are dealing with the breadwinner for the family
[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_01]: and sometimes the caregiver has to leave their employment as well
[00:23:44] [SPEAKER_01]: to take care of that person. So it's a very serious situation and for those that don't have a lot of
[00:23:53] [SPEAKER_01]: resources, we really fill a gap and there's a tremendous need for that that we find because
[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_01]: our growth we've had a lot more people that we've been serving in recent years.
[00:24:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah and you know LPF obviously fills a gap and these are resources that are just I mean
[00:24:18] [SPEAKER_00]: they're critical because I get contacted by someone who is going through an amputation
[00:24:27] [SPEAKER_00]: considering an amputation. Very often people will reach out to me and sort of describe what's going
[00:24:36] [SPEAKER_00]: on with them and of course I want to offer not just hope but practical solutions and
[00:24:46] [SPEAKER_00]: the first question and I've said this before on the show, the first question I always ask is
[00:24:53] [SPEAKER_00]: what's your support system like? And usually people will go right to
[00:25:00] [SPEAKER_00]: the sort of like emotional component, well you know my family is in my life and
[00:25:08] [SPEAKER_00]: you know I have good relationship with my kids and then I'm like that's great but
[00:25:17] [SPEAKER_00]: what about the financial situation? How are you going to survive this financially?
[00:25:23] [SPEAKER_00]: You know where are you at in terms of financial resources because if I know anything about
[00:25:32] [SPEAKER_00]: amputation especially is I mean it's literally a pause button on life. It literally says okay
[00:25:43] [SPEAKER_00]: everything that you were doing up until this point that's going to be on pause for a while.
[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_00]: You cannot just you know this isn't like some outpatient procedure where you go back to work
[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_00]: in a couple days. This is a major life change, this is a complete hard right turn and you're
[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_00]: getting off on an exit ramp and it's going to be a while before even any shred of life
[00:26:16] [SPEAKER_00]: goes back to normal. So knowing you know that organizations like the limb preservation
[00:26:23] [SPEAKER_00]: foundation is out there is a critical part and other organizations like yours because we do have
[00:26:32] [SPEAKER_00]: this sort of tightly knit community and there are these sort of key players which you are
[00:26:40] [SPEAKER_00]: part of that that are supporting people to bridge the gap, to make it possible at some point to
[00:26:49] [SPEAKER_00]: release the pause button and go back to your normal life and that's so important. I think because
[00:26:59] [SPEAKER_00]: for most people they see it as okay this is a you know this is a complete deal breaker like
[00:27:05] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm done like there is nothing after this and I try to be positive in that space although it's hard
[00:27:15] [SPEAKER_00]: to say no it's not over. It's going to look different, it's going to feel different but
[00:27:21] [SPEAKER_00]: with the right kind of resources, with the right kind of help, with the right kind of advocacy
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_00]: and you know putting your team together whatever that looks like everyone has their team.
[00:27:36] [SPEAKER_00]: There's that you know that personal piece and then there's you know the professional piece
[00:27:42] [SPEAKER_00]: you know who are you surrounding yourself with in order to get back to normal and you know I
[00:27:50] [SPEAKER_00]: tell people don't get so discouraged by so many of us that return back to life you'll get there.
[00:27:59] [SPEAKER_00]: It's just a patient process. You have to give yourself time to heal and time to fail along the
[00:28:07] [SPEAKER_00]: way because that's just part of making all of this work and you know hopefully you've been
[00:28:16] [SPEAKER_00]: able to see some people on the other side of that. I'm assuming you have. Yeah absolutely and that's
[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_01]: really what we strive to do is to get people you know get them through the most difficult
[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_01]: crisis point so that they can go on and get back to life. It may not look exactly the same
[00:28:43] [SPEAKER_01]: but we have our community of people and we definitely want to connect those who have
[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_01]: successfully you know gone through their journey so that they can actually you know be living proof
[00:28:58] [SPEAKER_01]: and and and be a resource as well to you can do this you know if if I can do this you can do
[00:29:07] [SPEAKER_01]: this and there's lots of heroic people that we have the privilege of working with who are
[00:29:14] [SPEAKER_01]: superstars you know and then just everyday people are superstars too. Just honestly overcoming
[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_01]: these situations that are not they're not easy there's not a quick fix it takes months and
[00:29:32] [SPEAKER_01]: months of time with lots of pain and you know learning how to redo things and yes we we want
[00:29:41] [SPEAKER_01]: to support that whole process and get people to you know get people to connect with others
[00:29:50] [SPEAKER_01]: is part of that healing process for for everyone even for the giver of that mentoring
[00:29:57] [SPEAKER_01]: is it's very meaningful for for all members. Yeah was I was I reading correctly are you are you a
[00:30:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Chicago native or no? I am a Chicago native. Okay that's what I thought because you went to DePaul
[00:30:11] [SPEAKER_00]: right? Yes. Okay I went to Loyola. Okay. Yeah so we're kind of similar sort of educational
[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_00]: background. DePaul was another school that you know I looked at I don't I don't recall specifically
[00:30:28] [SPEAKER_00]: why I didn't go there and ended up at Loyola may have been because my brother went to Loyola but
[00:30:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean do you miss Chicago at all? Yes we get back there every year it's just a wonderful city
[00:30:43] [SPEAKER_01]: it's so cultural and dynamic and just so many skillful professionals and the top of the line
[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_01]: everything there I miss Chicago I'm proud to be a Chicagoan but the mountains were calling me
[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_01]: so yeah it's beautiful it's beautiful out here in Denver in Colorado and I like to
[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_01]: you know have the best of both worlds whenever every year we are back there my family is there
[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_01]: and friends and so it's really special to get back and go to all the you know wonderful cultural
[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_01]: institutions and the lake and you know and the suburbs too it's a wonderful it's a wonderful
[00:31:36] [SPEAKER_00]: metropolitan area. Yeah it's an incredible city I'm actually doing a bike the drive next weekend
[00:31:46] [SPEAKER_00]: and we've done it a few times you know doing you know 35 miles of bicycling on Lakeshore Drive
[00:31:58] [SPEAKER_00]: you know in the summer is it's pretty spectacular for me it's very liberating empowering
[00:32:06] [SPEAKER_00]: and there's nothing like you know pedaling along on Lakeshore Drive not on a bike path
[00:32:14] [SPEAKER_00]: you're literally on Lakeshore Drive and just you know cycling through the city is it's awesome
[00:32:22] [SPEAKER_00]: and I've done it a few times and fell in love with it and I'm so looking forward to it next
[00:32:28] [SPEAKER_00]: weekend. I want to transition to the symposium I want to talk a little bit about the symposium
[00:32:39] [SPEAKER_00]: what it's all about what you're looking to accomplish in April it's in April correct
[00:32:47] [SPEAKER_00]: yes what you're looking to accomplish in April so if I'm attending the symposium I'm just an attendee
[00:32:55] [SPEAKER_01]: what can I plan on seeing when I visit well honestly we do this symposium with the
[00:33:03] [SPEAKER_01]: patient at the center that's really who we care about and providing we want everyone of course to have a wonderful experience but we really want to bring together all the different disciplines with the patient in mind or the survivor in mind
[00:33:20] [SPEAKER_01]: we want to connect them with honestly the medical community there's often you know never enough time to ask questions
[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_01]: questions that other people have on their minds when they're when they're visiting their physicians
[00:33:35] [SPEAKER_01]: so we want to provide access to the physicians the prostitutes we want to provide some innovation
[00:33:43] [SPEAKER_01]: show them yet we've had some spectacular researchers that really give us a glimpse of what's coming in the future
[00:33:51] [SPEAKER_01]: so we want them to have access to all of those disciplines but also of course the most important
[00:33:59] [SPEAKER_01]: thing too is making connections with others we want to provide connections for basic resources how do you
[00:34:10] [SPEAKER_01]: you know the how do you do this and how do you cope with this how do you manage this
[00:34:15] [SPEAKER_01]: what are some resources that are that are helpful for me at this point in my life if it's so many
[00:34:24] [SPEAKER_01]: you know adaptive sports are happening now we try to you know do touch on some of those
[00:34:32] [SPEAKER_01]: physical activities and on the emotional activities and create togetherness for the survivor
[00:34:40] [SPEAKER_01]: as well as honestly the caregiver the family member or the friend that is there they have their own
[00:34:48] [SPEAKER_01]: you know issues that are different so we want to create a space that is for the number one
[00:34:56] [SPEAKER_01]: for the patient but also for the caregiver and also for the community of medical professionals
[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_01]: who are treating these patients so that they can build connections themselves so we're really
[00:35:12] [SPEAKER_01]: intentional with creating just a great variety of different disciplines to come together because
[00:35:22] [SPEAKER_01]: asking questions being curious learning from each other and creating a positive energy
[00:35:30] [SPEAKER_01]: is extremely um you know how it is you you've gone to these kinds of things before and you come out
[00:35:38] [SPEAKER_01]: of it and you're empowered you know you really feel like you've received some information that you
[00:35:44] [SPEAKER_01]: can apply to your life immediately and you've made some good connections that are meaningful
[00:35:49] [SPEAKER_01]: for you that you can carry on after the event so our hope is to bring community members together
[00:35:58] [SPEAKER_01]: and create positivity that they can take far beyond the time at this symposium yeah I think it's a
[00:36:07] [SPEAKER_00]: good point the empowerment piece and feeling like you're part of a community I was fortunate enough
[00:36:15] [SPEAKER_00]: to go to the the convention for the amputee coalition last summer I didn't go this year
[00:36:23] [SPEAKER_00]: but um I went with my girlfriend Sarah and who's not an amputee she's in in medicine but
[00:36:35] [SPEAKER_00]: she was commenting about how that experience made her feel like she was now more part of that
[00:36:46] [SPEAKER_00]: my community that you know by knowing me of course she's she's she comes from you know medicine so she
[00:36:55] [SPEAKER_00]: she's very curious and she asks a lot of questions a lot of clinical type questions and I can see her
[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_00]: her gears are usually turning quite a bit when it comes to you know how I take care of myself or
[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_00]: you know what what my prosthesis is doing how it's performing um how I'm reacting to it
[00:37:20] [SPEAKER_00]: but by going to an event like you're describing where it's a community vibe it's very positive
[00:37:27] [SPEAKER_00]: it's very empowering you're talking about education you're talking about advocacy you're
[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_00]: talking about community all these things that are critical again when we when we talk about
[00:37:39] [SPEAKER_00]: support systems she came away from that experience as a non amputee non limb difference feeling like
[00:37:49] [SPEAKER_00]: she was more part of that community now and I think that's an important point because so often
[00:37:58] [SPEAKER_00]: caregivers family spouses of people that are in these situations
[00:38:07] [SPEAKER_00]: maybe don't feel as connected to it maybe don't feel that there's a lot of sort of connective tissue
[00:38:14] [SPEAKER_00]: there for them because it's not happening to them but I always say it is it's just as much a part
[00:38:23] [SPEAKER_00]: of your life as it is the person who you love because you're going through it together and
[00:38:30] [SPEAKER_00]: and their victories are your victories their losses are your losses you know just like any
[00:38:37] [SPEAKER_00]: other aspect of relationship it just becomes woven into the fabric of what that is because very often
[00:38:48] [SPEAKER_00]: amputees will come to me and they'll say well you know I'm newly single now and how do you
[00:38:55] [SPEAKER_00]: how do you navigate you know getting back into a relationship as an amputee and I see this come
[00:39:03] [SPEAKER_00]: up a lot a lot especially on um socials like social media the whole okay relationship as an amputee
[00:39:16] [SPEAKER_00]: and you know the easy response is always well if they can't get over it you don't want them anyway
[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like well that's a that's a sort of a simple answer for a very very complex
[00:39:33] [SPEAKER_00]: sort of you know problem or challenge let's call it and I see it as you need to find someone
[00:39:43] [SPEAKER_00]: that you can welcome into that dialogue that you can invite them to learn more to experience
[00:39:50] [SPEAKER_00]: more and once they're invested in some of those you know aspects of what this you know limb difference
[00:40:02] [SPEAKER_00]: journey is like it's just it's a bonding mechanism in the relationship I think it brings people
[00:40:09] [SPEAKER_00]: closer they understand each other better so I always say you know give give people a chance to
[00:40:17] [SPEAKER_00]: to learn more invite them to learn more I mean I had all the same hang ups when I got back into
[00:40:25] [SPEAKER_00]: the dating pool which was you know how is this going to be perceived and then I felt as if I was
[00:40:33] [SPEAKER_00]: sort of pursuing this sort of weird version of you know ableism where I had to overperform or
[00:40:41] [SPEAKER_00]: hyperperform or do even better than men my age because I had quote unquote something to prove
[00:40:49] [SPEAKER_00]: and what I realized is that it's just this very very gentle patient process of just allowing
[00:40:57] [SPEAKER_00]: those things to naturally happen and give your potential partner an opportunity to learn
[00:41:04] [SPEAKER_00]: and to learn more encourage that sort of education and advocacy give them a chance to be in that space
[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_00]: I mean bringing someone to your symposium I would think for a lot of folks would be very very eye
[00:41:22] [SPEAKER_00]: opening to see that there's so much happening there's so much excitement and positivity
[00:41:29] [SPEAKER_00]: in this community right and to experience that energy it's really an extraordinary
[00:41:37] [SPEAKER_00]: experience it's it's can be really engaging and fun and I think that that's what makes events
[00:41:47] [SPEAKER_00]: like yours so incredibly important to the community because you're saying okay we've got
[00:41:55] [SPEAKER_00]: clinical people we've got survivors we have you know some of the latest tech
[00:42:02] [SPEAKER_00]: going on things like that I'm assuming it's it's kind of a convention like atmosphere no
[00:42:10] [SPEAKER_01]: yeah um it is it is we have a lot of we have classes going on um we are also
[00:42:19] [SPEAKER_01]: we have introduced and we're planning to introduce more social aspects just because
[00:42:26] [SPEAKER_01]: what we've talked about the connection you know the connections that are made are
[00:42:31] [SPEAKER_01]: are very important especially connections among each other you know while that education is happening
[00:42:39] [SPEAKER_01]: so um I know that as someone else who's attended these types of things you know you come away and
[00:42:49] [SPEAKER_01]: you're so energized and honestly your life has been changed a little bit because you feel so good
[00:42:57] [SPEAKER_01]: and so full of ideas um you know you you come away with hope you come away with a new hopefulness
[00:43:05] [SPEAKER_01]: a new vision for some things that you can do in your life to deal with things um and and provide
[00:43:13] [SPEAKER_01]: enhanced quality um so we're looking to do that that is our goal we want and we have been offering
[00:43:23] [SPEAKER_01]: people some assistance to actually come to our event just um I think that you mentioned the
[00:43:30] [SPEAKER_01]: amputee coalition and I think that it's extremely it's got to be extremely empowering to go to
[00:43:38] [SPEAKER_01]: a major event like that um for people that are in our community that are you know maybe more
[00:43:45] [SPEAKER_01]: in the west coast I think it's um accessible to them and one of our goals you know truly is
[00:43:52] [SPEAKER_01]: to make it you know how can we help you get here um and we do offer them opportunities to
[00:43:59] [SPEAKER_01]: you know really tell us your story and tell us if you have some financial challenges and
[00:44:05] [SPEAKER_01]: what we can do to help you be it either cover you know cover your hotel or cover your um travel to
[00:44:13] [SPEAKER_01]: get here um we want to provide those experiences because they truly can be um they can really infuse
[00:44:22] [SPEAKER_01]: some connections people connections as well as education and you know provide a good
[00:44:30] [SPEAKER_01]: you know really provide an overall boost to your psyche that lasts for a while and make you
[00:44:38] [SPEAKER_01]: really want to get involved and come away with new ideas to improve your life so um we want to
[00:44:46] [SPEAKER_01]: help people get there we want to help them have these experiences and connectedness
[00:44:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I want to just briefly talk about your intake process when you're you know setting people up
[00:44:59] [SPEAKER_00]: for success but um outside of that I want to uh get into some of the details about how people
[00:45:07] [SPEAKER_00]: can reach out to you so let's let's walk through you know someone that is considering okay I want
[00:45:16] [SPEAKER_00]: to reach out you know to the limb preservation foundation and I want to see you know how they
[00:45:23] [SPEAKER_00]: can help me um how does that process usually start well honestly they can of course check us out
[00:45:32] [SPEAKER_01]: our website um and many people um learn of us just in an ad hoc way they learn about of course
[00:45:42] [SPEAKER_01]: assistance program we offer scholarships also for um people that are going through undergrad or
[00:45:49] [SPEAKER_01]: graduate or vocational education that they've been through something major in their life and
[00:45:56] [SPEAKER_01]: they're obviously trying to enhance their future with an educational goal we are and we help them
[00:46:02] [SPEAKER_01]: so the website does um basically walk you through some of the process for how how to learn about our
[00:46:13] [SPEAKER_01]: patient assistance program our scholarship program um we have peer support we also have
[00:46:20] [SPEAKER_01]: as we just talked about our symposium and the symposium on the patient side we we truly try to
[00:46:29] [SPEAKER_01]: keep costs low to attend um and then if you cannot afford those costs to attend we do offer some
[00:46:39] [SPEAKER_01]: subsidies to help you get there um so I would say that the website is a great starter
[00:46:46] [SPEAKER_01]: there's lots of information about the process let's let's get out that address um yeah it's
[00:46:53] [SPEAKER_00]: limbpreservation.org it's limbpreservation.org that's if you want to inquire you want to get a
[00:47:04] [SPEAKER_00]: some sort of a process started in terms of finding help learning more about the resources
[00:47:12] [SPEAKER_00]: that LPF offers um so yeah that's critical piece right there it all
[00:47:19] [SPEAKER_00]: sort of starts with the website that can give you information if you're just looking to stick
[00:47:25] [SPEAKER_00]: your toes in the water as long as you have toes right see I can make amputee jokes because I'm an
[00:47:31] [SPEAKER_00]: amputee um but also uh thinking about the symposium what is the actual date uh of the next symposium
[00:47:43] [SPEAKER_01]: it will be it's actually happens always during limb loss awareness month in April
[00:47:48] [SPEAKER_01]: it it will be April 25th um which is a Friday afternoon in golden colorado
[00:47:57] [SPEAKER_01]: the other thing that is wonderful for people is those people that really have come out
[00:48:04] [SPEAKER_01]: of the other side of the experience and also feel like they have some story to tell
[00:48:11] [SPEAKER_01]: an experience to tell that will benefit other people um we really want to hear from those people too
[00:48:19] [SPEAKER_01]: as our speakers and playing a variety of different roles so if any of the um any of your audience for
[00:48:28] [SPEAKER_01]: the podcast really just does feel um that they have some incredible story to tell um we really
[00:48:36] [SPEAKER_01]: want to hear from those people people who want to volunteer with us um you know it is a community
[00:48:43] [SPEAKER_01]: as you know it's a it's a special community um it's a smaller community and we really need to stick
[00:48:49] [SPEAKER_01]: together um and that is really what our uh you know our educational event is about is fostering
[00:48:57] [SPEAKER_01]: that community and that connectedness and everyone has some different skills and talents and
[00:49:04] [SPEAKER_01]: um has good things to offer each other that's awesome great way to wrap it up
[00:49:12] [SPEAKER_00]: marcie rubick executive director of the limb preservation foundation i want to thank you
[00:49:18] [SPEAKER_00]: for being here i would encourage everyone to check out that website get excited about
[00:49:24] [SPEAKER_00]: this symposium in april again marcie thank you so much for being here and spreading
[00:49:29] [SPEAKER_00]: some incredible just an incredible story incredible news about what your foundation is doing
[00:49:37] [SPEAKER_00]: and everything that we're looking forward to in the future that's going to wrap it up for us
[00:49:41] [SPEAKER_00]: my name is rick bonkowski this is the amped up 211 podcast and i want to wish everyone
[00:49:46] [SPEAKER_00]: health and happiness see you next time